Thoughts on gender:
Gender identify is a troublesome issue, unless you use more than one gender discriptor.  For example, I am a man woman woman. More descriptors can be added as necessary.

I am more masculine than I realize most of the time.  My hobbies are male.  I have an aggressive personality but not in body language or personal interactions.  I am annoying to people, I think, because of the weirdness after self-selection from both genders’ traits. I dress a little like a man but in female clothing, never wanting to wear very feminine clothing.  I am asexual and a little androgynous, and if I had thought earlier about what I was wearing when I was little, I should’ve seen the androgyny coming instead of being confused all the time.   In many ways, I am female in my daily routine and frequent preference for “girly” things (that are unrelated to clothing and luxury) and still identify as female. 

Man:  hobbies, interests, Type A personality, asexual androgyny as a woman
Woman:  Liking “girly” things (although not many), maintaining “woman” as my identity to the end, and missing some male interests and mindsets
Woman:  In little details, fall under “woman”  

I hardly know what a woman or a man is, but the multiple descriptors help clarify that dichotomies exist.